Ribs, admittedly, don’t appear at first glance to be an ideal baby/toddler food—quite the opposite, really. But if you’re willing to commit BBQ heresy, the end result of this recipe is a kind of porcine gummy candy that your child will gleefully inhale. The trick here is to embrace the “meat jello”—the pejorative term barbecue purists use for meat that falls easily off the bone when pulled with your teeth (and not the kind that gets stuck within your teeth). Most restaurants that feature BBQ ribs go this route—usually by boiling the meat first and then baking with sauce to finish—in order to produce the soft and sticky and very easy to eat product with which you are familiar. You’re not going to win any competition BBQ contests with this approach, but you can create a family signature that can easily be scaled up when friends and family come to visit.
Now, this recipe requires more time and steps than others on the website, but the actual amount of effort required on your end is not much more than the most. You could forgo making your own sauce, say, and use a store-bought one; you could skip the saucing and broiling part altogether and squirt it over the top upon serving (or serve nothing at all). You can make this through and around your child’s schedule, too—I’m partial to doing the initial oven cooking during nap time, then the sauce and broiling about 15 minutes before dinner—or you could make it in advance and store it until you need it. Your baby’s never had ribs before—no judgment here on how you make it your own!
If he membrane hasn't already been removed from the meat, flip the rib rack(s) over so that the underbelly faces up and look for the thin white web of fat that traverses the length of the underside. Find a spot at one end and pull back on it to lift it up; then run a knife or your finger underneath it to stretch it away from the rib; pull it off and discard.
Flip ribs back over and rub the top and sides with oil. Sprinkle salt all over. (Be judicious with how much you put on, but rest assured: you will not harm your child.)
Cut a few ribs from the middle of a rack and pull most of the meat from the bones; select for your child’s plate those pieces of meat with little or no fat and skin but which feel juicy and soft to the touch. Serve with a little sauce if needed, as well as a bone on which your child can gnaw. I tend to keep any accompanying dishes light: vegetables and fruits.
If you’re sensitive about your child’s salt or sugar intake, skip the saucing and broiling steps and just pull the meat from the bone, spritz with lemon and/or dust with no-salt seasoning and serve. I’m a fan of a bit of mustard, cilantro, and the dust from the bottom of a peanut jar myself.
I’ve made this recipe with heritage pork from a respected butcher, and I’ve made it with commodity pork I bought in a “buy one-get-two-free” deal; both came out excellent. Use whatever product you want. If you do buy from a butcher, definitely ask them to remove the membrane for you: will allow you to skip the first prep step—and some grief.